Fire: The first step of the alchemical transformation is calcination which corresponds to the element of fire in your life. Calcination reduces everything to ashes and psychologically burns off the density of one’s personality and belief systems. When the element fire begins to affect your world, you will lose attachments to the material realm and free yourself from your own self-deception. Fire vigorously works on the ego and mind. The separation from a false reality and our attachments can be a painful process to go through.
Water: The element water creates the process of dissolution within your life. It helps us let go of relationships and paths not meant for us. Water cleanses and dissolves structures to create new patterns. This receptive element also helps to form your intuition and psychic abilities. This part of the spiritual transformation will take you to the watery depths of despair and provides a better understanding of all of your unresolved emotions. As you release all that does not serve you, you will be baptized and reborn.
When making life changes for personal wellbeing resistance may arise at any time. A part of you is likely feeling that life has too many real stresses to manage without getting down. I feel you. I know that most of our histories make it hard to overcome our patterns and neurotic tendencies. I also know that there are legitimate painful and stressful experiences that can arise at any moment such as a death, divorce, job loss or family dynamics. Life isn’t always a breeze and our minds can easily get carried away with how difficult things are. One of my teachers taught me the following Yogi Bhajan quote to repeat out loud three times, “Let the whole world fall, but not Chelsea Ann Wiley.” Say it out loud with me now using your own name, “Let the whole world fall, but not…”. Now say it again two more times like you mean it.
This is the type of assertive energy you have to maintain when you are protecting the life inside of you from outside programming. Mama Bear knows best. You must trust yourself and know what type of people, places, noises or activities will trigger you. Avoiding external stress whenever possible will help you to create internal mental peace. If you want to keep your mind neutral it may be necessary to skip certain experiences that tend to upset you while you are trying to conceive or are pregnant. During this sacred period of time your peace and harmony should be an absolute priority.
Connecting with Your Beloved for Conscious Conception
Sexual intercourse performed for the purpose of conscious conception is a chemical romance and alchemical union between the male and female. When a couple is in balance they have complementary sacred geometry within their energetic fields. This creates a unique vibration between all of their chakras and increased alignment. Their combined love forms a palpable physical energy which is amplified during sexual intercourse. Senses become heightened and conscious awareness increases. As we know from the beginning of the book, the senses play a key role in forming the energetic signature and sacred geometry of the child at conception. When a couple’s internal and external environments are vibrating at such a rate they become visible to the higher realms, especially during intercourse.
Ensuring that you and your partner are free from domestic issues and fully aligned in your bodies, minds and spirits at the time of conception will not only enhance your fertility, but the type of soul you will birth. Conception should ideally be a planned event where the two of you speak about bringing a child into the world before you find out you are pregnant. I went into great detail about this in Mystical Motherhood. The book includes information on important concepts to discuss with your partner and how to amplify your fields in the 72 hours before conception. In Fertile, I want you to leave with deeper understanding about what a divine relationship looks like and what it does not. Many relationships are caught in negative repeating patterns which block the mind, heart and sacral region from connecting, which is vital to conscious conception.
This Kriya is a fundamental and simple meditation that you can do daily to increase your self-esteem and stimulate the sexual system. It is one of the best and most important meditations given by Yogi Bhajan because it works directly on stimulating the Kundalini energy and creating a high amount of energy in the system. It balances the lower chakras, increases the capacity of the heart, improves overall health, and balances sexual impulses. It will help to get you what you want. If you want to get pregnant, do this meditation!
Beyond the planetary fluctuations and menstrual cycles we also have 11 moon centers that fluctuate every 2.5 days. Men only have one moon center at their chin, which should ideally be covered with hair in order to ground and stabilize the male. Women on the other hand are constantly moving in their emotions like the oceans and its tides. The benefit of knowing which moon cycle you are in is that this understanding provides clarity as to why your moods fluctuate so much.
Knowing what moon center you are in will help you to plan what to do in activities and life. It will also make you feel significantly less crazy as to why you may be moody, sad, focused, in love or insecure. Knowing yourself in every way is a way to gain your power back. The moon centers are subtle, but when you know which center your consciousness is residing in you will become incredibly intuitive. Yogi Bhajan said that the women who know their 11 moon centers will rule the Age of Aquarius.
This meditation is from the Kundalini heritage and was taught by Yogi Bhajan. It can be done daily during pregnancy, and music to follow along can be found online and on YouTube. The Kirtan Kriya will help to balance your mood and emotions. It will also help to regulate your menstrual cycle, which is vital when you are trying to become pregnant. You can also do it back to back with your partner to combine your energies. It improves the memory and brain function and balances the glandular system.
Sit with your legs crossed and spine straight to start. The SA-TA-NA-MA meditation helps to release haunting, limiting patterns of the subconscious mind and prepare a couple for pregnancy. As you chant, imagine energy flowing through the top of your head, or your crown center, and out your third eye, or the place mid-brow between your eyebrows, in an L shape. This helps to circulate your breath and the energy of the sound current.
